Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Immortal Ishq


Love is the most beautiful
Immortal creation of God Almighty

He has made an imperfect and interdependent World
But there in this imperfection is a flawlessly perfect creation:
Love

Love cannot be anything but perfect
Because love is not a kiss or a hug or a man-woman relationship
Love is the purest manifestation of God Himself

Man may work hard to spread hatred in this world
Yet, Love survives and thrives and conquers
Because it is a divine blessing

May we all learn to love God instead of fearing Him
Let us keep him in our hearts
And not disgrace Him on the open streets 

Love Stories in this Universe are written by God Himself
And He writes them with an indelible ink
And without an ending
He has created a circle of love   
Because He does not want love to end ..... Ever






 





Food for thought

"It has often been said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach and the best way to a woman's heart is through laughter and good conversation"


Such statements are a big proof that men and women have neither matured nor progressed from the time some misogynist tried to push women inside the kitchen !


Why should women go out of their way to please men anyway ?

Don't they have likes and dislikes of their own which must be respected too ? 


Before you start cooking a meal, please consider giving some food for thought to your mind too 😊 


Khair ... In my opinion cooking is a sacred activity ... Ibaadat hai ... You are preparing a meal that will nourish you and your family 


Bhagwaan aur Kisaan ke baad , the cook is supreme 💖🙏🏽💖


Ye saarey khayaalaat aaj ka lunch banaatey huay mere dimaag meiN aaye to socha Facebook ke saath share kar leiN , aur jo bann kar tayyar hua hai wo bhi ... 


Kasam se garmi meiN kitchen meiN paNkha chalaa kar cooking karney se dil ko badi thaNdak milti hai ... 


Aur waise bhi this occasional cook has to blow the trumpet of her occasional kaargardgi 😄😄😄


Thank You God for the blessings we receive 🙏🏽💖🙏🏽


Good Evening family and friends 

Happy Friday Eve

Alif

 "Alif" ... 

The first letter of Urdu , Sindhi , Arabic , Persian , Dari , Tajik , Pashto , Kurdish and maybe some other scripts too , is written like the number 1

Incidentally the word "Allah" begins with an "alif" 


In a deeper spiritual sense , in some of the monolithic faiths , because of its shape , "alif" symbolizes the Oneness of God as well as represents a metaphorical connection between The Supreme Creator and His creations ...

The proverbial "seedha raasta" / "the righteous path" 


Like Sahir Ludhianvi says in one of his much-remembered film songs ...

"Aana hai to aa raah meiN kuchh pher nahi hai ... "


Aur Shuja Haider ne likha ... 

"Chitiyan likh-likh yaar manaavaN 

te yaar na hovey raazi

Rab sohney nu arz maiN paavaN 

te dey dey duniya saari"


Shuja also says ...

"Nikal padaa maiN par phailaye

Thak gaya hooN dil behlaye

Aatish lagi aur tishangi

Seena yeh mera kyoN jalaaye ...

Alif bass harf nahi 

Ye zarf hai kamaal ka 

Ibtiba jahaan ki 

Jawaab har sawaal ka"


The connection between man and God is a simple straight line when man chooses to stay connected with his conscience 


Zamiir / Conscience / Soul se jab rishta tuut jaata hai , tab aadmi seedhey raastey se bhatak kar duniya bhar ke pheroN-chakkaroN meiN phaNs kar reh jataa hai 


Aur agar ye baat samajh meiN aa jaaye ... to phir ibaadat , jis tarah se bhi kari jaaye , wo ek safar ki tarah se hoti hai ... 


Safar ... 

BaNdey ka ... 

Aadmi se insaan banney tak ka ... 🙏🏼

Boundless Bonds

Although this may be said more vocally about finances and money, the fact that relations are the most unstable of all the possessions that one may ever be attached to can hardly be denied. 

Most of one's relations are established at birth just as some other vitals like religion, gender, nationality etc are as helplessly determined. In addition to these predetermined specifics in one's life there are more associations that come along through societal responsibilities like marriage and work/profession, and also as simply as friendships forged over a period of time.


Of the relations so developed, the extension of family through marriage becomes as important and permanent as the relations by birth or what are more popularly known as blood relations. And perhaps these are more complicated too as in they often become defining factors in shaping the bonding between blood relatives. They tend to determine the strengthening and blossoming (or the withering away) of a family and thus determine the happiness (or the conflict) that could make or break an entire clan.

Therefore it is very important to choose these associations intelligently. But in a world full of imperfections, passion and selfishness this is easier said than done. 
One is so painfully amazed to see crowded family courts full of once-upon-a-time loved ones facing one another with bitterness. And more painful is the fact that they are but a small portion of the vast majority of blood relatives locked in varying degrees of hateful rivalry.

A fair amount of friction cannot be ruled out though, if individuals have to interact and live in harmony. 
Ironical as it may sound, the fact that no two individuals are same, and difference in opinion is considered a healthy sign of co-existence cannot be ignored. 
Tact, transperancy and understanding assume great importance in building and cementing long-lasting togetherness specially in multi-dimensional relations.

How can understanding develop? 
And how much of tact should be brought into use? 
How much should one "give" in order to be able take something in a "give-and-take" venture? 

These are questions that do not have a tailor-made answer. Nor is there a ready-reckoner on relations that can provide helpful formulas forever. But some broadly defined rules can be kept in mind.

The following may be guidelines of sorts:

1) Always place yourself in the position of the other in case of a conflict to "understand" the other's point of view.

2) Never try to seek perfection.

3) Do not "give" anything in charity to someone who does not require it. And never "give" in expectation of something in return.

4) Always have work areas well defined.

5) Have good fences and respect other's space and privacy.

And the most important thing to remember is that for a relationship to be enjoyable one must understand and be understood by the other. 

This is where transparency comes in. In most circumstances misunderstandings start with petty things and soon ego takes over reason. 
Ego is often confused with self respect ... but while self respect makes a man worthy, ego spells doom ... self respect is a source of dignified existence, ego undoubtedly causes devastation, not just for the egotist but by extension to associated relationships as well.

Balancing anything is difficult. 
And balancing kinship is perhaps the most difficult of all balancing acts. But relationships are the most precious treasure of a human being because good relations bring more contentment than all the material wealth in the world. 
Hence investment in relations must be as selfless an effort as is humanly possible.

And if earnest attempts are made, even in an imperfect selfish world it is not impossible to have workably fulfilling relationships. The most important ingredient that goes into the making of delicious kinships is a lavish quantity of sincerity dressed with the most exhilarating herbs namely tact, love and humaneness.

But having a family , preferably a clan that upon whom one can depend , is the greatest of all blessings and it is never late in life to mend your relationships , especially the ones that were spiritually and emotionally the spine on which your body of relationships stood

Thursday, January 23, 2025

More about Muharram

 It is a bit longish but still I am Copy-pasting my Facebook update in connection with Muharram here also :

" I have not read or academically explored Islamic History.
Whatever Islam I practice is from what I have seen in my family plus my own understanding of God's universal message through His countless Messengers.

So my perception is that The essence of That Divine Message remains the same.
But the Time and Place, Language and Ethnicity are obviously different.

Hence we see that while we celebrated the Victory of Truth and Purity over Evil yesterday, today, the of 10th Muharram, (Aashoora), we are remembering the ultimate sacrifice of Hazrat Imam Husain and his companions.

Also there are some lesser known facts associated with Aashoora (Day of Remembrance) that I came to know through google search on the subject.

Wonder if even the Muslims generally know that Ashoora marks the day that Moses and his followers (a.k.a The children of Israel / Bani Israel) were saved from Pharaoh by God by creating a path in the Red Sea.

Other forgotten, but very important commemorations include Prophet Noah leaving the Ark and Prophet Muhammad's arrival in Medina.

All these three events being significant victories of Truth over Evil.

Have a Peaceful Blessed Muharram Friends 

Sunday, August 25, 2024

When you go out all by yourself in a public transport bus or train don't you feel connected to people travelling with you ?


When you go to buy sabzi , phal , grocery , or when you go to the bank , or for a walk , or to a restaurant don't you feel connected to people in those places ?


When you are watching a film or a play or a concert in a theater , even if you may not be accompanied by family or friends don't you feel connected to people sitting there with you , as also the performers on the stage ?


Isn't it fascinating to come so close to people you ve never met before and may never meet them again in future ?

And yet you were destined to share those moments in that space with them ... ?


One may often feel awesome typing a Facebook status connecting with people in a world that exists in one's imagination ... or just sitting by the window and clicking selfies with the rain outside in a world that is for real ?


One can choose to ignore these amazing miracles of God 

Or allow ourselves the luxury to be fascinated by them and be grateful to The Almighty ... 


I say Buddy ! Choose the better option 🙂🙂🙂 !!!




Tuesday, August 20, 2024

Khuda ka mazhab Ishq hai

Jisey hum behadd pyaar karne ka daawa kartey haiN ussi ko sab se zyadaa dukh kyoN de detey haiN ... 


Sangam ki Radha ho 

Ya Antony ki Cleopatra 


India ka Kashmir ho 

Ya Israel - Palestine ka Jerusalem 


Maa ke liye Beta 

Biwi ke liye shauhar ... 


And such other examples 

Saari conflict domination and ownership ke liye hoti hai 


Lekin kya mohabbat meiN ownership ki baat hoti hai 


Sochiye ...

Mohabbat kahaaN hai 

Where Love has gone ...